[well. we are already starting to get there, yes.]

You're missing out on some of the other good things, too. [we're ignoring she's died so fucking often.] We got to meet other people. And we got to learn about other things. And...if we weren't here, we wouldn't be together.

[dating, she means. there's no way she would have told him for real that she wanted to be with him when so many things were happening.]