[gently assessing this...]

Sorry. I didn't mean to pry. [because it's not her business, she's just worried. as she said. she knows it's been a long chain of awful events for him, and she doesn't necessarily like that timing may not even change too much unless it's so specific for him.]

I know we don't have much left now, but we do have time. There's time to take a little for yourself to think things through. Weigh the pros and cons, and try to think of how it may turn out.