That is true. Even I've struggled with that before, in the short time I've been able to choose anything. Maybe it's best to wait for them to ask, or to ask ourselves and respect their choices... though I know some would still prefer to handle things all on their own for some reason or another, even if they do need help.
Yeah. You get it, exactly. [some people want to handle things themselves even when there are glaring signs they need help.] And sometimes asking is difficult, too, if they take it the wrong way.
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