[that's fair, she has sort of lumped kanda into the category of "men who don't actually think she listens to everything and say shit without thinking about it because they're grumpy over it."]

Unsurprising. There's something about this place that still doesn't want us to have access to any of our powers or the outside world. Like we're supposed to be isolated to be better sacrifices...unless we're just too far for the connection. I don't know how yours really works.